He is the ultimate joy-giver, and his principles point us in the direction of complete joy and how to participate in a sexual relationship with someone that is exciting and fulfilling.One of the clearest principles on this issue of physical relationships is Ephesians 5:3 -"But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people." Sexual immorality is not just sexual intercourse outside of marriage." Your question sounds very much like"how far can we go? Unfortunately, while we would like a definitive answer, the bible doesn’t lay down a set of hard and fast specific boundaries, but rather gives a set of ‘principles’ for relationships.
Parents can be a blessing to a married couple by offering love, wisdom, and encouragement.The Bible makes note of several supportive in-law relationships, namely Ruth and Naomi, Peter and his mother-in-law, and Jethro, who guided Moses.What this looks like in your situation specifically, might be different to someone elses.There are obviously some behaviours which all people agree are ‘off-limits’ - I won’t even mention these!The first step toward finding a solution is to identify the problem. Parents develop an older and deeper relationship with their adult child, which is to be expected.
Even so, healthy parents will welcome their child's spouse into their lives, if that person is loving and kind.
But when it comes to other behaviour, you must use your own wisdom as to whether it is sexual or not. There is a type of hug that is completely non-sexual.
Then there are other hugs that begin to ‘hint of sexual immorality’.
Becoming too involved with the couple, they may meddle unintentionally, leaving the couple feeling smothered or controlled.
Although they think they are acting lovingly, they are not allowing the couple enough breathing room. After she and Roy moved into their new home, they enjoyed expressing their own, more modern style.
Feeling trapped in a corner, Linda and Roy were torn about what to do.