He pursue me for about 6 months we always go out in a group but we started going as couple about 3 I was uncomfortable at first but I realized once the race issue was put aside I found myself enjoying his company. This is the first time I am dating outside my race and so far it is the BEST DECISION I HAVE MADE!We since have broke up not because the racial difference but his family issues he have deal. I receive rude looks from different people of all race. It is so hard for people to understand so I thank all of you who have shared you stories!!!But I learn though him how love again and it doesn't have be a black man When I see interracial couples, I always smile because they show the world, We are in love, with no fear or shame. We just show them we don't care how your feel about us. I can tell you, He shows me he loves me, not just in words but action too. So don't let people dictate who you can and can't see. I am in love with a Mexican man and we have been together since we were sixteen!
Just need some insight, experience, and suggestions on how to handle when someone says something rude. PS: Also, he is light skin so he might look like a different race to them, definitely not white though.
But either way it is my business who I date not stupid people on the street.
Of all the races I've dated, he was sweet to me, no cussing,disrespect,and never preassured me sexually.
As a blk woman, the odds seem against us in finding love.
Most chola chasers are cholas or cholos themselves.
But the remainder of them usually bear the same characteristics described in a chola.
But as long as they keep that bullshit to their selfs won't b no shit I've always love black women and get the same problem. To me they tell me anything they want but when someone disrespects my black queen they are in big trouble. This is the first time I am dating outside my race and so far it is the BEST DECISION I HAVE MADE! There is an Hispanic guy I met when I was 17 n high school. We hit it off right away, on the phone from the evening till the 6 n the morning. But,he wasnt ready for anything serious, did his thing, I did mine,however, we still cared deeply for one another.
I actually am ashamed to admit it but I prefer mexican guys over most guys besides indian guys I'm into anything brown. I receive rude looks from different people of all race. He was the guy my "new boos" would get compared to.
Im from the south, n I never knew how prejudice my fam was until we started to date.
I believe we only got stares because peop didn't know what nationality he was, middle eastern,indian,etc.
I agree, but I am the type of person who speaks my mind and it is hard for me to hold back, because of the disrespect we receive.