Hey there, I just started dating this guy who's still married, but separated. He is getting divorced to her, but it does take awhile. he is now divorced from her (she cheated) and we are now married.
I highly doubt they're not hooking up again (she cheated on him). i believe it was wrong, but at the time i didn't think so. Actually - unless she walks away as an unbeliever, or she commits adultery and things are irreconcilable - you would still be committing adultery.
all i can do now is pray for forgiveness and believe that God will bless our marriage. If it's still recognized as a marriage by God nobody has any reason to be with another if they wish to follow God.
we are working towards growing together in Him and that is all we can do. The legality of being divorced is required, but never forget there is also a spiritual side.
My husband and I both come from a marriage that got divorced due to fornication and mental abuse, and God has brought us together and we're very happily married for 4 years now and much happier than either of us was in our previous marriage because this one is God ordained and God is our first priority...... If so, he should know that he should forgive his wife (not saying that he has to get back to her)...... I came back to edit this because usually, if you have to ask if something you're doing is a sin, it probably is.... This man is still married, so both of you are committing adultery according to God's word in the Scriptures.
For the sake of your immortal soul, your future happiness and this man's family, you need to stop immediately.
He is still married in God's eyes and if you love him you may encourage him to make things right with his wife. Whether sex is involved or not doesn't make a difference. If he has any respect for her, he will respect this decision.
More than likely he is just as much the culprit as she is and you are just "the other woman" right now. : D Just be careful with your heart - while I doubt that you are commiting a sin, this is not the situation I would put my sensitive heart in. : D : DShe didnt say she was sleeping with him - just dating Its not adultry until there is sexual activity involved......right? Sin is sin - we can't change the definition to fit our actions. Matthew But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart I don't like it when people look for ways to skim over sin by technicalities. lol I'm sorry you dont like it, but I'm not trying to skim over a sin, why would I do that? Im not the one dating a married man good point, but the delivery was not so good. I do not for a minute believe that God would bring a married man into my life "in that way".
The "world" offers lots of temporary comfort for folks who don't follow the Lord's Word. I highly doubt they're not hooking up again (she cheated on him). I appreciate your thoughts :)I will only share my daughter's experience ..is divorced.a separated man became very interested..her constant attention until she really fell hard for him..then, after calling her many times a day for a few months..of a sudden he stopped..explanation.even a text message...nothing..she was very hurt by it..finally found out that he had taken his wife back....please think it over long and hard..
I would say it's probably not what God wants for you, given the fact the guy is still married..can get hurt very badly.my thoughts on it...
Hey there, I just started dating this guy who's still married, but separated. He is getting divorced to her, but it does take awhile.
I highly doubt they're not hooking up again (she cheated on him). I appreciate your thoughts I don't know if it is a sin, but I'd wait until they get a divorce.....
I would wait, and of course as Karen suggested , pray! I was seperated, and dated a guy who was seperated. Hey there, I just started dating this guy who's still married, but separated. He is getting divorced to her, but it does take awhile.