From your post, it sounds like you are 'painting' with a pretty broad 'judgment brush' ...and/or perhaps just got 'burned' in a relationship with a single-mother (? Why else would you (reasonably attractive and not dating in this arena) be so concerned about the dating habits of 'single mothers' and 'desperate men? There was this checker at Safeway that, every time I got up to the pay station, she would just begin talking about her kids.
'Doll meet Ram Ram meet Doll Both New Jersey - that would make a great over-the-backyard-fence argument. How about the weather, the economy, food specials, vacation, how my day is going?
Being exclusive too soon."As a dating coach I encourage my clients to cast a wide net and date more than one person until talk of exclusivity arises," Cantarella says.
"I've found that because my divorced clients come from long-term monogamous relationships, they feel they shouldn't date more than one person at a time," she adds.
And what real man would even allow himself to be in a situation where he had to contend for number 1 spot in a relationship with a woman? Its always guys who have been damaged in some way or need a lesson manning up.
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When you date a single mother a man will never become #1I agree, I would never date a single mother.
I find the concept of raising another man's children to be revolting.They will love and nuture their children but will always be #1 with each other. When you date a single mother a man will never become #1 Great point, another reason to add to the list. What to do instead: Start out slowly, Cantarella says.One safe, effective and time-efficient way to start out is to trying online dating. You are able to set the pace and decide who is right for you.2.After a few times, I made sure I got into another line.