Throughout high school, I was essentially prohibited from being in a relationship (along...
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It could have been a slow-building tension that brought coldness and distance. The thing about giving advice is that everyone thinks they can do it, and when they think they will get their name plastered over a newspaper, magazine or website they are even more keen.Ask the majority of bad advisors onlnewould tell a girlfriend to dump her boyfriend with no thought to how she would never be able to do it because she needs him or thinks she loves him a lot.They go by principles and practical things instead of feelings, and forget that it is an emotional situation first and foremost for this person, with the practical things following after.Being an agony aunt is not always about telling the truth.
It can be about giving sympathy or telling lies to make someone feel better.
And remember that both types of thoughts tend to attract their physical equivalents....
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This is saying that they are so stupid they cannot think of a simple thing like making a phone call or inviting someone to come over.
That they are lonely because although they have lots of friends they have not thought of contacting them or inviting them.
You will not get this luxury if you write to a magazine or newspaper column where they often just write a few words very quickly because they are inundated, and usually they miss most of what you wrote because they are so busy, and usually they just send you a link to a website, something you could have found for yourself in ten with people, caring, sympathetic, intelligent, mature, reliable, who can stick to our deal of giving us at least five hours a week of their time in return for the £200 a week or more we offer them.